Sex Diary of a Boomer woman

Day 1 -Introduction: Do men really think more about sex then Women Do?



I have to ask bluntly.
Am I the only woman, especially a baby boomer age woman, who thinks about sex probably as often as they say a man does?
Ok so I'm not walking around with a huge ‘hard on’ all day long. There are days when sex is not so in the forefront of my mind. But,hey, I am visual too. Bombarded with media images and sometimes just the sight of the guy across the street ( a “hottie” in my eyes), I think about SEX often. Every day,lots of times a day. More often then I get it unfortunately. I think its healthy.Enjoyable.A stress reliever AND necessary to even my menopausal well being.Beyond that I LIKE IT and can't think of a time when I didn't !

I have an advantage. Men seem to find me attractive. I have been told even by a lesbian friend of my daughter that I exude sensuality. I don't know about that. Sometimes I feel horny as hell and other times I pretty much think I look like a slump running into the supermarket for my SILK Soy Milk but then I still catch some guy looking at me. When my hair was blonde I admit I got even more props but now as a light brunette I still get attention. The supermarket manager once carried my bags out to my car personally. The entire walk to the car he was staring at my chest and suggesting that a drink at the local bar would be a good idea ‘cause he was feeling a bit "crazy" that day. OK so it was flattering but I didn't go for it. I had noticed the wedding ring on his finger halfway to the car. Though I have to admit for a brief moment I considered his invitation. Point being there is SEX everywhere when you are feeling it. In real life, or in magazines, television or movies, I'm looking and my mind is ticking. Sometimes my nipples are getting hard, Sometimes I'm even getting a bit wet. I'm easily stimulated Thank God.! I LOVE being a woman and, a straight woman despite the homosexuality of both my siblings. Yep, the only straight kid in a family of three.


So here's the thing. I woke up this morning alone as is usual because I am single. I made it through about the first haze of the morning without a thought of sex. Then Badda Bing there it was! I was thinking about P and Saturday night. Thing is I really like P though we've only recently met. He's all the things I should have wanted when I was younger but was too codependent to identify. He's not bad on looks, great on conversation,somewhat charming with smiling eyes and lips. You gotta love a man who opens the car door for you and acts like you’re the only woman in the room even when you’re in a pretty decent sized restaurant with lots of other females around. So I got lucky with P in more ways then just a dinner out. It was too soon to have slept with him, but I did. I am a boomer after all ! Too old to keep thinking "Maybe he won't respect me in the morning." I did ask that. He didn't answer. Which led me to believe I might have been over playing my hand,but one thing lead to another. It was his fault. He had leaned over in the car after being what I thought was more controlled then most men I have been out with and he gave me one of the longest and best, passionate kisses I've ever had in my life. And I've had a lot. I was married twice had a few long lasting relationships, a and I spent more than a few passionately hot years with a famous Rock Star, who was much more than a friend with benefits.So here I was with P. now back at my house . He dragged me or I dragged him, his shit eating grin and his ‘hard on’ into my bed. I thought about that this morning. And throughout the day. And I thought about how much the physique of my 30 something daughter’s new lover looked liked my former bf and lover T, twenty something..No, I don't consider myself a "cougar" but what's good for DEMI is good for the rest of us if the chemistry works. Thank God again! this time for women's lib.Then because nothing or no one seemed to be "happening" during this kinda BLAH day. I thought about C (40 something) who turned out to give some of the best oral I've ever had. And K (another 40 something)who last week found just the right way to my clit, and I thought about A (another boomer) who left my thighs tingling with one kiss about a month or so ago. I never did get to try him out properly,,. And D ( 60 something) who has a way with his hands, and shit while I'm writing this I remember that today I also thought about G (30 something the hot ex NFL guy) and K ( my really hot buddy from NYC) with the hot rod and I don't mean his car, and harley. Haven't seen him in too long a time. Then back to P and his damn kisses and his eyes and smile. The way he tantalizes. So I decided I had to put it out there. DO WOMEN REALLY THINK LESS ABOUT SEX THEN MEN DO?



I know we are busy playing super mom when the kids are young and we get tired but even then not for George Clooney..come on give me a break!. I still thought about sex with my husband even when the kids were little and I was so blinded with fatigue I could barely change the diaper. But I wanted to feel every pleasure he had had to offer me. 20,26,30 something,40 something, or now 50 whatever.I'm still multi-orgasmic.Touch my left nipple and you’ve got me. I'm still feeling the desire and the need, and I can tell you there are woman I have spoken to in nursing homes that prefer that good looking orderly to help them into their bed. But that thing about sex and age is another story. Today, I want to know. Do men really think more about sex then women do? Or do they just admit to it more? It's socially acceptable for the male species to be openly SEX U ALL.To talk about their hot desires. I contend that we as women think about it just as much,even when we have kids,periods and pre menopausal symptoms.I don’t own a battery operated sex toy but I'm headed for the shower massage tonight or maybe a little self pleasure later. Life is good !