The Bar Kiss

I have admittedly fallen into the routine of going to a usual club meeting the usual suspects.

As previously described it is fun to participate and to observe. There are, on the dance floor, gyrating bodies, some pressed up against others moving to the music,sometime their own not the bands, that generate a sort of energy that extends beyond the dance floor.
We sniff out pheromones that are pleasing and sometimes fall for the lines we so much want to hear. "You have a great smile." "Your eyes are beautiful." "Wow, you are sooo sexy." Sometimes there is intelligent conversation but more often then not, in our altered states of mind, sometimes, from just the energy and the atmosphere alone, and not from the alcohol, we begin to want to be wanted,desired and we allow ourselves consciously or unconsciously to be drawn into the " BAR KISS."
It may be a PDA (Public Display of Affection) at the bar, or around it somewhere, on the dance floor or in a more quiet corner but in any case the person standing or sitting right there suddenly looks so irresistible that we move our bodies and faces closer finally culminating in that first kiss with a stranger. If it is terrible, awkward, we back away casually, continuing the chat. If it is comfortable we are hopeful....and if it works out just about perfectly...if it is HOT with passion we go back for a few more and are drawn in by the fantasy of what may come either later that night or somewhere in time.
I have found myself on a few occasions, I must admit, not very drunk at all .. sometimes,not even buzzed, locking lips with almost total strangers and enjoying every second of it.
There is something about the KISS... in particular the BAR KISS. Planned or spontaneous it is a phenomena of mutual consent that can, if done well, run our thoughts into pleasurable fantasy, or lurid desire, or both, with visions of body parts flying through our heads.
Lip to lip we are almost as vulnerable as naked body to body. We give a bit, a taste of ourselves to obtain a taste. And when it goes well...blood flows making our lips fuller by the nano second, men become erect and women wet. I have experienced it this way. Wetter then I might have imagined without a conscious trigger. As our lips, and tongues too, perhaps, are entwined I am immediately vulnerable to the thought of full out lust. When I was younger it was LOVE but now it is more about the journey of beginning to know,really know another human beings body...how it is pleasured and how it can pleasure.
Just a BAR KISS.
It has all that promise... not perhaps the once lengthy anticipation of the exchange of "feelings of caring" but definitely the exchange of mutual pleasure. If his lips are good and mine are good with his,,, intellect,looks, and anticipation of long term relationships no longer exist because the moment of the BAR KISS in the altered state of mind opens only one door for me now. The lustful passions of two bodies writhing not on the dance floor, but somewhere on my bed or his or wherever else might be convenient for a meeting not so much of the minds, not so much of the promise of future, but the fulfillment of the right now. Do Spirits and Souls collide? Maybe... maybe not. Pleasure and pleasure alone is the need to be fulfilled.
Even in those altered states of mind, nothing ventured, nothing lost, or,is it gained?
My lips are stimulated, tingle and IF the chemistry exists the body complies willingly to a blissful adventure, if not of love, then at least of the most pleasurable lustful passion... all in the simple BAR KISS...
"Hello,stranger." and then more,... OR not... "Good night and Good Bye."
But always, always worth the risk and the lasting memory.
Even the simple Bar Kiss may be just another memory... and there it is... all that matters in life,,, MAKING MEMORIES,,, leave the regrets behind. It is, after all, just a KISS, or is it?