Does Size Matter?

Does Size Matter?

On the age old question "Does Size Matter?" lets size things up..literally.

I posed this important question to women, some of them total strangers others friends, and even,relatives.

My first thought and conversation about size began in college I think... first year... a party at my house when my parents were gone for the weekend. When the guys had left, the "girls" sat around the kitchen table discussing sexual experiences mostly with the only woman we knew who had had any, and admitted to it. We asked her.."So how big is a IT any way?".... And in describing its length AND its girth, a dimension none of the rest of us had yet even thought about, she finally asked for some coins. Yes, coins ! Carefully stacking half dollars to about six or seven inches on the table in front of all of us, she said, "There!" then she promptly added.."except maybe it should be the width of silver dollars."
“Silver dollars? Really?” I questioned, “That big?”
She was the most intelligent of us... all honors students she, effotlessly had the unbeatable grades, We had no reason to doubt her expertise on this matter..
I think of her now with love and remember times when she in the back seat of the car with some guy would not "put out" without a promise of an ankle bracelet. She had a few ankle bracelets. I had none at the time. All of us relied on her for our information.
And so the question arose, and it keeps on coming back to this day.

To be honest I do not believe I have ever discussed intimacies with a woman friend without IT coming up... Along with "Soooo how was IT?" is the question .."AND.." It is pretty much code that if it is not mentioned then her partner was not so well endowed or, perhaps, average.
But if he is more then ample she will ALWAYS speak of it proudly... well, except if she is a petite woman who finds a larger appendage uncomfortable to handle so to speak.
On the other hand,,,lol, I have had the experience of the so super sized that only part of it could get hard and of course XXXL is lost in translation because only so much pole can fit in the hole.

I have to speak to the women who were open to this survey, all agreed that politely as women when a man is not so large and seems insecure about this fact we often will reassure him...
"Oh, you're fine."
"Just the right size."
"I don't like it to be too big."
"Well, you know how to use what you've got."
"You may not be large but you are just right for me."
Now, sometimes we mean what we are saying, but much of the time we are being polite.
You see, of the women I asked," If you had a choice would you be with a guy with a small to average sized penis,or with a more amply endowed man? " The women all, but one said BIGGER IS BETTER.

Now why is that?

It is because the female anatomy not only stretches out to accommodate size, it stretches out over time.
Let's tell it like it is. You can have had one child, a dozen or none and it is still over time ,even with kegels and thigh presses going to lose some muscle tone..
If you are lucky or on hormone replacement it may not lose its lubrication qualities,but the G spot and the clit and all the rest like the feel of fullness and friction and that means length and girth !

Worst experiences for most women is always the sexual chemistry and then the actual act of intercourse with a man who is far smaller then he sees himself and asks though he is the size of a stubby pencil... "Is IT big enough for you, honey..?" while the woman receiver is wondering ."Is he kidding? Where the hell is IT ?"

Now a well grown penis on the other hand offers the ability of every sexual position without too many contortions, and failures to launch.
It can go in front ways, on top, bottom, side ways, and from the rear successfully and it offers the satisfaction of a comforting fit, sometimes with full friction and vacuum like suction.
It may lead to some problems if the fit between man and woman is too perfect for the condom no matter how well placed to be lost in space so to speak... but as dangerous as this might be to the passing of sexually transmitted disease, the experience is UNFORGETTABLE..

Large penises or is the plural peni? definitely have the women's vote.

So what is large?
Don't tell me less then five inches erect and don't look at me if the girth is less then a quarter.

Do I sound harsh to men here?
Remember how many times you asked a woman her bra size or described her boobs to your buddy friends with cupped hand motions in front of your own chest, or compared a woman's chest to melons, usually cantaloupe.So please don't fain insult while reading this.
You,too have your preferences..though some men are satisfied with just a handful and others like them Jagunda ! (That's large melon size usually.)
Yes, you guys have your preferences too and women have been oh so careful over the years not to crush your egos when they find that they feel much like Samantha on the television series Sex And the City who finds herself in love with less then adequately sized James.
It just doesn't work.

Sure, sure a guy can be great with his tongue and with his fingers, but gentlemen and ladies I think you all would agree a great fit is even better, and better in this case is BIGGER.

Now the jury is still out and I can not insist that my non scientific survey is the be all and end all answer to this question.
But remember guys,,, big trucks, and big bank accounts,,, really don't go as deep.

A woman won't toss a good man away if he is smaller in size, or just the average six inches.
Women are kind compassionate creatures who know what is important in their lives.
Being a gentlemen, being honest, reliable, and compassionate, a giving, caring, humorous chap can go a long way. But if you are strutting around scowling at the attractive women who smile at you, holding out for the perfect Barbie, or even if you just want your woman whatever she looks like to be happy... equality in all the rooms in the house helps a lot as foreplay.
And if not you better know what you've got and how to use it.


The women I spoke to for the most part were adamant that they were tired of being judged superficially by men who when push came to shove didn't want to "share" in the work of the relationship and figured 4 inches in quarters was just dandy as long as it got hard.

Sorry guys... the consensus is that size does count.

Women won't measure your manhood by it if you compensate by being a man in other ways,
but immature boys of all ages need to SIZE UP.

Remember LIFE IS GOOD and sex is better when it's bigger.

Comments please.